Where to actually take her in Rio de Janeiro

Rio lets you spread an evening across three neighbourhoods without it becoming absurd: Ipanema to start, Lagoa when it gets dark, Santa Teresa if the conversation is working. What you want to avoid is the front desk that asks questions at midnight and the bar where you have to shout. A hotel in the Zona Sul with a 24-hour desk solves both, and solves the third thing too: there is a camera and somebody awake at the entrance.

Hotels that do not make it awkward

The single most common way an evening goes wrong in Rio de Janeiro is the front desk. Some houses charge a visitor fee, some ask for her passport, some simply do not allow a second person in the room after midnight. The houses below are the ones worth booking in this city - and because policies change with the season and the manager, the one question worth asking at reservation is whether a registered guest may come up to the room.

• Belmond Copacabana Palace Copacabanawalkable to everything · discreet entrance, front desk asks nothing · proper suites, not a box with a bed · hotel bar - she can arrive without crossing a lobby
• Hotel Fasano Rio de Janeiro Ipanemaa view worth the first ten minutes · hotel bar - she can arrive without crossing a lobby · proper suites, not a box with a bed
• Emiliano Rio Copacabanaa view worth the first ten minutes · quiet enough to talk · staffed 24h, late check-in is normal
• Hotel Arpoador Ipanemaa view worth the first ten minutes · quiet enough to talk · no dress code drama
• Miramar by Windsor Copacabanawalkable to everything · staffed 24h, late check-in is normal · a view worth the first ten minutes

Bars for the first drink

Forty minutes in a bar before anything else is not a formality - it is how two adults find out whether the evening is worth having. Pick somewhere you can hear each other.

• Bar Astor Ipanemaquiet enough to talk · serious cocktails, no queue at the bar · no dress code drama
• Canastra Ipanemaquiet enough to talk · open late · no dress code drama
• Bar do Copa Copacabanahotel bar - she can arrive without crossing a lobby · serious cocktails, no queue at the bar · discreet entrance, front desk asks nothing
• Palaphita Kitch Lagoaa view worth the first ten minutes · open late · busy and loud after midnight
• Explorer Bar Santa Teresaquiet enough to talk · serious cocktails, no queue at the bar · English spoken

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The areas, honestly

Every city has a district everyone names and a district where things actually happen. In Rio de Janeiro they are not always the same place.

• Copacabana Zona Sulwalkable to everything · tourist-priced, watch the bill · busy and loud after midnight
• Ipanema Zona Sulresidential, private, nobody looks twice · quiet enough to talk · walkable to everything
• Lapa Centrothe nightlife spine of the city · busy and loud after midnight · open late
• Vila Mimosa Praça Onzestreet scene, not a venue · busy and loud after midnight

Three things that cost nothing

• Be where you said you would be, at the time you said it. Punctuality reads as respect, and it is the cheapest respect there is.
• Settle the practical part at the start, once, and never bring it up again.
• Book the room in your own name and go up first. Never ask her to check in for you.

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